initial implementation of --explain

initial implementation of --explain

Currently it only displays explanations of options like --in and --copies.

In the future, it should explain preferred content expression evaluation
and other decisions.

The explanations of a few things could be better. In particular,
"standard" will just appear as-is (or as "!standard" if it doesn't
match), rather than explaining why the standard preferred content expression
for the group matches or not.

Currently as implemented, it goes to stdout, and so commands like
git-annex find that have custom output will not display --explain
information. Perhaps that should change, dunno.

Sponsored-by: Dartmouth College's DANDI project