GDK W32: Adapt to event filter removal

GDK W32: Adapt to event filter removal

Add a new W32 backend-specific message filtering mechanism.
Works roughly the same way old event filtering did, but without
events (events are GDK/X11 concept that never really made sense
on W32), so there's no functionality for 'altering' events being
emitted. If an event needs to be emitted in response to a message
do it yourself.

Implemented like this, it should give better performance than
if we were to use GLib signals for this, since W32 sends a LOT
of messages (unlike X11, which doesn't send events as often)
all the time, and invoking the signal machinery on *each* message
would probably be bad.

https://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=773299