memaccess: reduce include dependencies

memaccess: reduce include dependencies

The common header doesn't itself need to include public/vm_event.h nor
public/memory.h. Drop their inclusion. This requires using the non-
typedef names in two prototypes and an inline function; by not changing
the callers and function definitions at the same time it'll remain
certain that the build would fail if the typedef itself was changed.

Signed-off-by: Jan Beulich <jbeulich@suse.com>
Acked-by: Tamas K Lengyel <tamas@tklengyel.com>