prevent dropping required content of other file using same content

prevent dropping required content of other file using same content

When two files have the same content, and a required content expression
matches one but not the other, dropping the latter file will fail as it
would also remove the content of the required file.

This will slow down drop (w/o --auto), dropunused, mirror, and move, by one
keys db lookup per file. But I did include an optimisation to avoid a
double db lookup in the drop --auto / sync --content case. I suspect that
dropunused could also use PreferredContentChecked True, but haven't
entirely thought it through and it's rarely used with enough files for the
optimisation to matter.

Sponsored-by: Dartmouth College's Datalad project