ARM: new VGIC: Add accessor to new struct vgic_irq instance

ARM: new VGIC: Add accessor to new struct vgic_irq instance

The new VGIC implementation centers around a struct vgic_irq instance
per virtual IRQ.
Provide a function to retrieve the right instance for a given IRQ
number and (in case of private interrupts) the right VCPU.
This also includes the corresponding put function, which does nothing
for private interrupts and SPIs, but handles the ref-counting for LPIs.

This is based on Linux commit 64a959d66e47, written by Christoffer Dall.

Signed-off-by: Andre Przywara <andre.przywara@linaro.org>
Acked-by: Julien Grall <julien.grall@arm.com>
Acked-by: Stefano Stabellini <sstabellini@kernel.org>