fix windows assistant upgrade glitch

fix windows assistant upgrade glitch

Prevent windows assistant from trying (and failing) to upgrade itself,
which has never been supported on windows.

The new windows build is made with UPGRADE_LOCATION set, which enabled this
code path that had never run on windows before, and doesn't work. I don't
want to try to support self-upgrade on windows, or generally on other OS's
than the ones where its working, so added a check for that. This way the
build can keep setting UPGRADE_LOCATION and if some later git-annex does
learn how to upgrade itself on some OS, it won't need changing the build
setup.