add: Consistently treat files in a dotdir as dotfiles, even when ran inside that...

add: Consistently treat files in a dotdir as dotfiles, even when ran inside that dotdir

Assistant and smudge also updated.

This does add a small amount of extra work, getting the TopFilePath.
Not enough to be concerned by.

Also improve documentation to make clear that files inside dotdirs are
treated as dotfiles.

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