consistently use importKey when available

consistently use importKey when available

This avoids import with --no-content and with --content potentially
generating two different trees, leading to a merge conflict when run in
two different clones of a repo. And it's necessary groundwork to make
git-annex sync --no-content import from special remotes that support
importKey.

Only the directory special remote currently supports importKey, and it
generates the same key as git-annex usually does, so there is no
behavior change for it.

Future special remotes will need to take care when adding importKey,
if it generates different keys. Added some warnings about that to
comments.

This commit was sponsored by Noam Kremen on Patreon.