MAINT: casting errstate for NumPy 1.24

MAINT: casting errstate for NumPy 1.24

* Attempts to deal with the ARM-specific portion
of gh-17630 -- these issues appear to be the
result of NumPy 1.24.0 change:
https://numpy.org/devdocs/release/1.24.0-notes.html#numpy-now-gives-floating-point-errors-in-casts

* I was able to reproduce and fix the issues
in `scipy/sparse/tests/test_base` on an ARM node

* however, for `test_decomp_update` I actually saw more severe
problems when working on a Cavium ThunderX2 B0 node;
for the latter cases, I'll paste what I saw below
for some of the representative failures, but for now
I just tried to patch the less severe casting errors I see
in the CI for those tests to see if it helps (I'm hoping that
my own flavor of OpenBLAS is just throwing things off locally
and I can at least delay looking into that for now...)

```
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_d::test_neg_strides_economic_rank_p - ValueError: array must not contain infs or NaNs
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_d::test_neg_strides_rank_p - ValueError: array must not contain infs or NaNs
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_d::test_non_itemsize_strides_rank_p - ValueError: array must not contain infs or NaNs
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_d::test_non_native_byte_order_economic_rank_1 - ValueError: array must not contain infs or NaNs
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_d::test_non_unit_strides_rank_p - ValueError: array must not contain infs or NaNs
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_D::test_economic_rank_p - AssertionError:
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_d::test_non_native_byte_order_rank_1 - ValueError: array must not contain infs or NaNs
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_D::test_Mx1_economic_rank_p - AssertionError:
FAILED scipy/linalg/tests/test_decomp_update.py::TestQRupdate_D::test_economic_rank_1 - AssertionError:
```

Gbp-Pq: Name 0013-MAINT-casting-errstate-for-NumPy-1.24.patch