tls: add min/max protocol version options

tls: add min/max protocol version options

The existing secureProtocol option only allows setting the allowed
protocol to a specific version, or setting it to "all supported
versions". It also used obscure strings based on OpenSSL C API
functions. Directly setting the min or max is easier to use and explain.

Backport-PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24676
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/24405
Reviewed-By: Refael Ackermann <refack@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rod Vagg <rod@vagg.org>
Gbp-Pq: Topic ssl
Gbp-Pq: Name acb73518b7274bacdfc133fd121e91dfd6ba460b.patch